'There are so many nerves there and it's so intimate, but it's also a reminder that she's in control. 'Stroking my balls makes me so horny,' says my friend Mark, a doctor. Working alongside #6, know that, while your free hand doesn't need to be in or near his butt, it should be doing something. Point is: not exploring and only giving standard, safe BJs can be boring, so live a little. You can just play with the exterior area of his anus, or even nearby, along the lines of his and your comfort level. Doesn't even mean you have to expose the tip of a single finger. Doesn't mean you have to your fingers all the way up there like he's a puppet. For a lot of us, it's the express train to orgasm town. Many guys (though not all guys) love having their little man-rosebud toyed with. 'It sounds strange,' says my friend Arjun, 'But I knew my wife was the one when, without asking, while giving me head on one of our first dates, she reached back and started playing with my ass-hole.' Sound extreme? It's not. team Sam wants his messy like rebel forces storming a capital. Saliva makes it sexy, and looser and so much more fun,' while my friend Jacques, a graphic designer in his 30s, will say 'The best BJs are the ones where I can barely tell she's been there neat and tidy with no clean up.' Jacques likes his oral stealthy and quick as if performed by S.E.A.L. That's why one guy, like Sam, a 40-year-old director of sales will tell me 'It can't be wet enough. But the best way is to actually be into it.Įach guy and his penis is different. Why waste everyone's time? Some good ways to let him know you're into it include: eye contact and sexy noises (like the kind of 'hmmm' that indicates that is the best sexy snack in the universe). If you don't want to put his dick in your mouth, don't do it.

'If I think she's not having a good time, I'm not having a good time,' says my friend Sean, a sensitive banker who likes to know that the woman performing oral on him is as happy about it as he is when the shoe is on the other foot.

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